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Have you ever felt like no matter how good a person is, s/he will always have haters?
It’s true. It is the norm these days.
The reason behind this is because people identify themselves as their egos. For a lot of us, hate is an easy way out. Hate is easy, whereas love takes courage.
But is hate a stronger emotion than love?
Don’t be ridiculous. Of course not!
The thing about love is that love is less showy. Love is slow and steady. On the contrary however, hate is obvious. Hate is loud and shrill.
Here’s the tough one,
What do you do when you get hate?
- Do you run and hide within the safety of your walls?
- Do you ignore the hate?
- Do you talk about it to someone else?
- Do you confront the hater? OR
- Do you keep the hate coming?
All these are things you can do about it. Which one/s do you?
If it is something to do behind the screen I would recommend you ignore it, talk about it to someone else or confront the hater (if you are bold enough). Whatever you are more comfortable doing.
You can’t be running and hiding from something which is not your fault. Ignoring hate might seem like the exact same thing, but it isn’t. There is a fine line between the two. The fine line being, ignoring hate means you are a wise person.
You can always talk about it to someone else if you aren’t strong enough to handle it on your own. Oh darling, there is nothing wrong with not being strong enough. We are all different. Our strengths, our limits, they are not the same and it’s nothing to be ashamed of. So the next time you feel like you can’t handle it, promise me you’ll talk about it to someone else?
Confronting the hater doesn’t mean you go and whack the living daylights out of him/her. You don’t wanna do that because you’ll most probably end up in prison.
So what do you do? Go and ask the hater why s/he hates you and see if you can resolve the problem behind it. It could always be a misunderstanding. If not, ask them to not try so hard because they are only wasting their time hating you.
Haters gonna hate, just like potatoes gonna potate.
However, if all this hate is on screen, from your blog for instance, then what do I recommend?
Keep them haters coming. Blow them kisses and give them a warm welcome to your blog.
They are going to provide you and your readers with the most hilarious, most naive comments ever!
They think they are putting you down, but in reality they are only giving your blog more and more views than people who don’t hate you.
All’s well, that ends well.
Haters are gonna see you walk on water and say that’s because you can’t swim.
This is all assuming you are a good person who has done nothing wrong to deserve hate.
If not, get your shit sorted out! Don’t do things to deserve hate, that’s awful.
Here’s a reminder of my previous random posts which you may have missed –
- The Superficial Likes
- The Best Tips On Dealing With Stress
- Running Out Of Ideas On What To Blog About?
- Relationships And Men – Expectations
- What A Woman Wants From Her Man
- How To Make Your Blog Matter